Timothy Michael Crandall - Online Memorial Website

Please I read Timothy's whole page, I needed to write who ever told you that you need to get over it is nuts, are they in your shoes, probably not.
My son Joseph is on this site, I will never get over it, my life will never be the same.  Since the day my son was taken from me, that was the day my life and heart went with him. My heart goes out to you and your handsome son Timothy. I have been a nurse for 38 years, and have been on medical since Joseph was taken from me. I tried to return on 3 different occasions and could not do it. Just remember Tim is with you everyday, and we will see our son's when we are all reunited. My older son, Joey's brother is Tim's age and Joey is two yrs. younger, when you are up to it or you have time,please feel free to visit my son.
God Bless
Debbie DeMatthews
PS
The doctor stated to me when you are passed 5 years of your child passing, and you are still the same, there is a condition for that, and that is what I have. It is called "complicated grief".
Don't think you are going crazy....Please
I actually wrote a book, image that after Joey, it is on the news section on this site.
or you can look at it on my direct site:
www.deborahdematthews.com
I am on my 2nd book
So many Mom's have told me how much it has helped them. I am glad, I just wish I can help myself.

                            


                                            GOD BLESS YOU!

                   

MEMORIES

 

Life stands still and aches with memories.

Memories that aches so deeply of a precious life cut too short.

My son Patrick who left me behind to grieve

a loss that has no words, no definition,

no explanation, no concept.

I am left only with sorrowful feelings that linger deep

within my wounded soul reminding me to hold on to those

bittersweet memories.

These memories which came from a life that I love

so dearly and treasure.

God, help me to keep those powerful memories

because today I cherish them more than my own existence,

for it is my memories of my son Patrick, who is my life and

my light until the end.

 

Dedicated to my son Patrick Christian Barbosa